You’re laying in bed bumping up against that body next to you, seething with hurt and anger. You haven’t been touched or reached for in more months than you care to count. You’ve gone through the typical exercises of seduction, friendship, and caring, only to have been rejected and thwarted again and again. Your mind has assessed all of the possibilities: someone else, a lack of desire, or loss of love. Emotionally bruised and wounded, you withdraw, and the situation now becomes filled with distance and loneliness.
You are not alone! This story repeats itself in many bedrooms all across America. Your natural impulse is to blame yourself. “What am I doing wrong?” “What can I do right?” But just as we can never make anyone love us, we can’t make someone want to have sex with us, either.
So what can you do?

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