Sweet & Discreet Sex Positions for Quiet Nights in Crowded Households

There are a number of ways to have discreet sex — mostly because there are a number of reasons, you’d want to have discreet sex. The first way: Keep things quiet. Maybe you’re in a house full of people, or maybe the walls between your home and your neighbor’s home are seriously thin. No matter the cause, your aim is to keep the noise to a minimum. The second way: Keep things subtle. This is usually only the goal when you’re having sex somewhere you (maybe) shouldn’t be or when you’re trying to avoid kids storming your bedroom at an inopportune time. But regardless of what’s going on, you’ll want to keep things from looking (or sounding) like you’re having sex.

Many people define “great sex” as a single kind of sex — a particularly raucous, aggressive, and perhaps adventurous kind of sex. But this understanding of what makes sex great is reductive. Because the truth is, discreet sex positions can be just as thrilling as some of their more obviously dramatic counterparts. In fact, trying to keep the act a little bit quiet, a little subtle, and a little bit under-wraps can render it more exhilarating than it otherwise might be. Quiet, close sex can be intimate and special as it is discreet!
And an obvious reason you’d prefer a more discreet sex position? You want to keep things low-key. Sometimes you just don’t feel like putting on a big show, or making a ton of noise, or—honestly—trying very hard. Sex doesn’t have to be super active to be fulfilling. And these discreet sex positions (all quiet-toy friendly) are a great way to get yours without doing anything over-the-top.
So consider this an open invitation to embrace the inherent (and all too underrated) excitement of discreet sex. Challenge yourself to keep things quieter, subtler, more low-key — and see what you find. Maybe you’ll stumble upon a new favorite position — or a new favorite way of having sex altogether.

Sweet & Discreet Sex Positions for Quiet Nights in Crowded Households