Cold Dating and a Couple of Psychologists

Picture this: it’s Friday night. You and your partner are both off work. Time for a date…except, neither of you have made any plans. “Usual spot?” your partner suggests. You climb in the car, head down to the reliable dinner spot you’ve been to a hundred times before, settle in with your usual dish…

Stop. We all know how boring this is. 

Variety is the spice of life – and the variety of your sex life. We all know this, but when date night gets rote, your sex often pays the price. Why? Because you’re not stimulated. Aroused. Excited by new things. Great sex is precipitated by an erotic vibe you and your partner have conjured before anyone steps foot in the bedroom – but when dates are ho-hum, so is the sex. 

So, let’s help you have a creative date, one that’s perfect for chillier temps. These ideas are as unique as they are arousing, guaranteed to get your heart pumping, to enhance your intimacy, and of course…to build sexual tension. 

Cold Weather Date Ideas

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