Discovering the world of kink is like discovering a 10-story restaurant that's full of foods, ambiances, and people that you'd love to be around. Simply put, it's overwhelming. It's exciting, it's arousing, and you're freakin' pumped to explore all of it, but it's also simply overwhelming.
We actually have a term for this in the kink world: sub frenzy and dom frenzy. It's that heightened state of excitement that impacts your decision making. It's that level of hyperfocused anticipation that makes people make bad decisions - all in the hopes of getting to try some of those amazing things they've heard about.
As you can guess by the title of this article, I want to help you moderate some of those "frenzy" feelings - and ensure that you're in a headspace that will let you make grounded, safety-focused decisions about the kinky things you're going to do.
I know, I know: damper on the fun right? But I promise: taking a safety-first approach to kink doesn't impact your enjoyment. In fact, it can actually enhance it! Knowing how to properly warm up physically for an impact play scene lets the body better make its neurochemicals and help make it all feel better! Knowing how to properly tie rope bondage ties reduces the likelihood of skin pinching and rope burns - which lets you relax better into the rope.
So, let's get to it with the top 5 things you must do before jumping into kink (with your flogger already swinging)!
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