Finding Out About Cake Sitting

Connecting To Vanilla Life 

Before you ask if this is code for some other kind of sexual act – like something you would find on urban-dictionary.com – I can tell you that it very much is exactly what the fetish says… You sit on cake. 

Well, you don’t have to SIT per se. 

Cake sitting is a subcategory of “sploshing” (which focuses on the tactile and sexual nature of interacting with food) which is a sub-sub-category of WAM = Wet And Messy (which I’m sure you can figure out by yourself). 

You’re probably wondering, “Why cake?” 

Well … why not? 

For some people who love this kink, they say that it’s the feel of the cake and icing against their skin as well as the sweetness. I bet you’re still wondering … Why cake?! 

LOL. 

To get a handle on why some people are into WAM, maybe we can draw some parallels to common(ish) situations… 

COMMON COMPARISONS 

• Men who love to watch women mud/oil wrestle 
• Licking chocolate sauce off a lover’s body 
• Liking the feel of moisturizer as you lather it on 
• Enjoying the sensation of massage oil 
• Porn/RL where the person is smeared with semen 

INNOCENT COMPARISONS 

• We love to play in the mud 
• When we’re younger, we love to smoosh our food 
• Giggling when we get into fights with paints 

Many of us, at some point in our lives, have felt a pleasant connection to a substance on our bodies. It doesn’t mean it was sexual, but we can still see that there’s not a huge jump to sploshing. 

Also … Some people have made mad cash going online and doing this stuff. 

There can be side effects if someone isn’t careful – mostly yeast infections from sugar contact. 

But if someone is careful it can be avoided. 

So, the next time you buy a cupcake, why not smear a little on your finger and ask your partner to lick it off – you’ll be one step closer to this delicious fetish